Showing posts with label 36 months. Show all posts
Showing posts with label 36 months. Show all posts

Thursday, 15 November 2012

Kids Co-op - Kids Baking

 
Its Kids Co-op time again. Please link up your best kids activities and check out what everyone else has been up to. If you like a post please leave a comment, everyone loves comments. On most blogs you don;t have to be a blogger to comment, there is often an 'anonymous' option which anyone can use. 
This week I'm linking up the following:
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(Goblin is 36 months)
We had another family baking session. This time making pasties. These are great for younger children to make because there isn't a whole lot to them.
You will need:

  • One pack of puff pastry
  • cheese, or
  • chocolate (you can use chocolate spread or chocolate chunks)
  • milk 
  • baking tray
{ N.B. Since posting this I have realised that the UK word pastie - pronounced with an A for apple and used in the term Cornish pastie, is not a term used in the USA. In the USA the word pastie pronounced with an A like in hay, is whole different ball game and if you are easily embarrassed I wouldn't recommend googling it. So let's just chalk this one up as a cultural learning experience! }
Despite this being a very child friendly activity Goblin refused to even attempt to roll out the pastry, choosing instead to tuck into the chocolate filling while supervising Hublet's rolling skills.
Once Hublet had sliced the pastry into squares Goblin did manage some excellent one to one correspondence with a piece of chocolate going on each square of pastry (and quite a lot going in his mouth). We use a selection of mars bars slices, milk chocolate chunks, and blobs of nutella. Hublet also made some cheese ones (Goblin wasn't so interested in those as they didn't involve chocolate).
Once each square had a filling Goblin got to brush round the edges of each square with milk on a pastry brush. Then Hublet helped Goblin fold the pastry corner to corner and poking with his finger down the edges he sealed the filling inside. Then the pasties were placed on a baking tray.
Hublet put the tray in the oven for 15 mins on 180 C/350F/gas 5.
They were super yummy but didn't last long.
And now to the linky

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Monday, 12 November 2012

5 Tips for taking tinies to London

(Goblin is 36 months)


This weekend we took a trip to London. Its not far for us, about an hour by train. We went to see the London Eye. For anyone who doesn't know, the Eye also known as the Millenium wheel, was erected in 1999 to celebrate the new millenium, it is a giant ferris wheel with pods that can hold about 20 people, and it is situated on the South bank of the Thames. Despite Hublet and I both living in London until Goblin was born we have never been to see it before now.


As luck would have it over the summer a company called Superbreaks contacted me and offered me free tickets. 
"FREE TICKETS? There must be a catch!"
The catch was to write about the trip. Seeing as I would do that anyway I didn't think that was too much of a hardship so I accepted the free tickets - So this post came about thanks to Superbreaks London Eye package - Thank You Superbreaks.



I know many of my friends who don't work in London would think that a visit to "the big smoke" would be a bit scary, especially with kids in tow. So I thought I'd use this post as an opportunity to share some tips that might make it less so.

Tip 1: Don't travel during rush hour. 

Hublet, Goblin and I travelled into London after 9am. All overground trains as well as tube trains are totally rammed before 9am and no one is going to thank you for bringing your toddler on the train, let alone a buggy. In fact you'll be lucky to squeeze on a tube with a buggy before 9am. This tip also applies in the evening. No matter how cute your child is, a tired commuters will not agree. Its better to avoid travelling away from London on an overground train between 5 and 7pm.


Tip 2: Plan your journey.

Before we went we planned how we were going to cover every bit of the journey. There are so many travel options in London - underground, bus, ferry and taxi not to mention walking (which is sometimes the quickest option). The TfL website is by far the best way to plan.  
Now that Goblin doesn't need a buggy we travel mainly by bus and underground. But when he was smaller I did love black cabs. They aren't as expensive as people think and the glorious thing about them is that you can get a buggy in without having to fold it up. 
If you are going to use the tube with a buggy check the tube map. The stations with disabled badges next to them will have lifts and that will make your life ten times easier if you are travelling with a buggy - that said Londoners, despite their reputation, are generally very helpful and if you ask someone they will almost always help you up steps or an escalator with a buggy. The nearest tube station to the London Eye is Waterloo and it has disabled access. 



Tip 3: Don't try and do too much.

I had a great plan that as well as visiting the London Eye we could fit in a visit to the London Aquarium which is right near the wheel. However, Hublet brought me back to reality. London is pretty exhausting and your children may be overwhelmed. If you take on too much you will be travelling home with a tired and probably miserable person. If you don't go to London very often, and especially if you live far away you might be tempted to do loads of things in one day. But try to resist the urge.
Here is another plug for Superbreaks - they do packages including hotels in London. If you really want to pack more in you could consider an overnight stay. 
That said, the South bank is a great place to visit if you have young children. There are lots of family friendly restaurants and street theatre. Between Westminster bridge and London Bridge you can find the London Aquarium, the Satchi Gallery, the London Eye, a playground, the National Festival Theatre, the Tate Modern, the Golden Hinde, and the London Dungeon.
I mention the playground because you might not associate London with open spaces for children but there are some nice ones. The park on the South bank is one, and the Princess Diana Memorial playground in Hyde park is another. Its also worth knowing that the Turbine hall in the Tate Modern is good for running around (and it's free). The Tate Modern also has a free exhibition for kids on the fifth floor which includes a slide that plays music as you go down it.


Our "flight" on the London Eye was amazing. Goblin spent the whole half hour staring out the various windows in the pod. We pointed out all the sights we knew - for those who don't know the sites there are touch screen computers in the pods to tell you. You can also buy a circular map which marks everything you can see. I particularly like that the Eye is situated so close to Big Ben and the Houses of Parliament. They really are spectacular buildings and you get a fantastic view form the pod. 


Tip 4: Write your phone number on your child's arm in permanent marker

I can't remember where I read this tip but it is a good one for going to any crowded place. You write your phone number on both your child's arms in permanent marker and explain to your child why you are doing it "in case you get lost". Then if your child does get lost they can at least show someone their arms and say - this is for when I get lost. Most adults will know to phone the number even if your child can't tell them its a phone number. 

Tip 5: Don't be scared to walk

As well as the obvious attractions in London there are loads of unadvertised treats that you will only find if you take the opportunity to wander around. With such good public transport, if you detour away from your planned destination you can always hop on a tube or bus or get a cab back to where you need to be. And people in London love giving directions. Here are a selection of the things we found just walking back from the London Eye along the South Bank.

This last one is with my sister who came and joined us for lunch. 

As I said at the top of this post, our tickets for the London Eye were paid for by Superbreaks. They do a range of London offers here and I think its quite a good way to 'do' London if you are unfamiliar with the city.

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Saturday, 10 November 2012

The Sunday Parenting Party

Taming the Goblin

Its time for the Sunday Parenting Party, a link up exclusively for parenting posts. 
This week I'm linking the following:
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(Goblin is 36 months, original graphic from here)
Most parenting decisions are not irretrievable. If you decide further down the line that a certain style of parenting or a certain method of discipline isn't working you can switch to an alternative. You may have subtly shaped a portion of your child's life through that method but executing the new method can probably 'remould' them if necessary. 
However there are some decisions that once made are final. Hublet and I have taken one of those decisions:
We have told Goblin that Santa isn't real.

I imagine there are a few of you reading this who are a little horrified that we aren't going to induct our three year old into the magic of the Christmas fantasy. And I understand why you might feel like that. I get that most parents want to make Christmas extra special by joining in the global fantasy that a magical being comes and brings presents, and that he flys in on a sleigh with reindeer, and elves in Lapland make the toys. It is all quite fantastic and watching children's faces when they see their stockings full of presents and believe that Santa has been, must be amazing to behold. 

But the trouble is, its a lie. 
I don't want to lie to my child. 

Are we overreacting? Are we introducing the cruel realities of the world at too tender an age? Are we being selfish? Will we damage our son?
The truth is I don't know. But this decision feels right for our family.

We aren't starving Goblin of all the fun of Christmas. Hublet gets quite annoyed with me dancing round the house singing "Christmas, Christmas, Christmas" from mid November onwards. I know that Santa isn't real and it doesn't stop me loving Christmas time and feeling that its magical. Why should Goblin need to be treated differently. We will still tell him the story of Santa coming down the chimney and we'll still play the game of leaving out a carrot and a glass of milk. But Goblin will know that it is imaginary play and not real. This fits with the way we share other fantasy with Goblin. We tell Goblin stories about imaginary beings: aliens, talking animals that drive vehicles, fairies and gnomes, and Santa. We feed his imagination. But the difference is Goblin knows they are stories. 

What harm can it do to tell your child that Santa is real? Probably none - I'm not judging anyone who does tell their child that Santa is real. And I don't remember being traumatised by the discovery that Santa wasn't real. 
But I don't want a day to come when Goblin discover that his own parents were conspiring in a lie. I don't want to risk him thinking, well if they are lying about that, what else are they lying about. And lies can mount up. First its Santa, then the Easter Bunny, the Dummy Fairy, the Tooth Fairy, how his first pet went to live on a farm (when he actually died). Where would I draw the line?

So we had the conversation. It revolved around a shopping trip. He wanted a toy and we explained we weren't going to buy it. When he persisted we said "well we will write it on your Christmas list". This seemed to satisfy him. And later he said "Santa will bring me my truck at Christmas". Hublet and I were a bit surprised that he knew about Santa. So we said
"Goblin you know Santa is pretend, its Mummy or Daddy pretending to be Santa" 
Goblin responded "No Santa is real and he wears red and he walks"
I guess he must have got that from nursery or TV. We ended the conversation with him adamantly telling us Santa was real. 
But the following week we were at the supermarket again and having pretty much the same conversation over a toy. 
"Well we can put it on your Christmas list"
Goblin turned to me and said 
"Yes Santa will bring them at Christmas" 
Then he smiled and whispered 
"It will be you or Daddy pretending to be Santa".
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There were some great posts last week. Some that made me roll on the floor laughing, some that made me want to cry and some that were incredibly thought provoking. These are five of my favourites:
Life with a spirited child by Four Little Piglets
The things we do for a picture by Raise a Boy
Just ask for Help by Stuff with Thing
Keeper of all kids knowledge by Picklebums
On being the grown up by Prickly Mom
And now to the linky
Just a little reminder that parenting posts include tips and tricks, anecdotes about disaster days and super fab times, posts on breastfeeding, potty training, birth etc. Kids Craft and activity posts aren't really parenting posts unless they reveal a parenting truths (like how you failed to be child led and payed the price) or contain tips on parenting (like ways to calm a tantrumy child).  So if you have straight kids craft and activity posts to link please link them to Kids Co-op instead. 

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Friday, 9 November 2012

Hidden delights at Nature Nursery

(Goblin is 36 months)
There is construction work a foot at the farm this week. The kids went to investigate the new wooden walkways that have been installed running to the wood and a garden area. At the end of one of the paths they discovered a currently unused polytunnel.
The tunnel housed delight and wonder. It had a fluffy plant that scattered its fluff into the air if you poked it. 

And there were old bits of wood and loose dirt and tractor tires that had been used as raised flower beds. Goblin and Elfin were in their element and set to work doing ..... well just doing stuff, as only children can. What ever it was it was very important and they worked away industriously moving the earth around.
What I love about Nature Nursery are all the different ways the children play. They find a new thing to occupy themselves with ever time. We don't have a structure to the visit and that suits them perfectly. They are all curious kids and they learn through doing. I'm sure some parents might have stuck their heads into that polytunnel and recoiled at the broken spiky bits of wood and other potential death traps, but really what the children saw was a little haven of exciting adventure.

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Thursday, 8 November 2012

Kids Co-op - Shark Sensory Play

 
Its Kids Co-op time again, please link up your favourite kids activity posts and check out what everyone else is up to. This week I'm linking up the following:
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I found a cool Ladybird book on sharks and as Goblin seems particularly interested in them I decided to make a shark sensory bin. Amazon is my go to for all things so I got searching and quickly found a brilliant set of sharks
I had resisted buying aquarium gravel for some time. I have seen some great sensory bins using the stuff but I'd always thought it was too pricey. But I decided to splash out and bought some blue gravel. When I say it's pricey I think I hadn't appreciated that for £10 you could get 8kg. Or more to the point I hadn't realised how much 8kg was. It filled an entire under-the-bed box. That is an unnecessarily huge amount and had I realised I probably would have gone for a smaller bag.
A small note of caution, aquarium gravel is literally a huge quantity of tiny stones so if your child is still mouthing things this probably isn't a sensible sensory play option. Its not so much a choking thing but I don't think they'd be great to ingest.
To Goblin's shark sensory bin I added flat marbles and sea shells. I thought the finished article looked rather appealing. However when Goblin discovered it he set to work removing every last shark, sea shell and marble he could find.
Then resorted to form and got his diggers out. Well you can't say I didn't try!
And now to the linky

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